I was always curious when it comes to sex. I wanted to understand everything there was about sensuality. My parents are pretty liberal and had quite a library of novels. When I hit puberty, I stumbled upon my dad’s stash of erotic books hiding in plain sight in the library which carried literary titles like My Secret Garden.
Sure, I surfed my share of porn but I am forever grateful to have also read these books that put women at the forefront of the sexual experience.
This formed the genesis of me being a giver in bed. Even when watching porn, my focus was always on the woman’s pleasure. Which is why I was duly surprised when I first saw a woman squirt on screen in my late teens. My thirst for all things squirting was insatiable since then.
The idea that you can see a woman reach her climax, with highly tangible substance, was just intoxicating to me. I tried to learn everything I could about squirting and the female orgasm from books to videos and experimented on my partners to their delight (I hope). I got good at the “hooked” technique in massaging my partners’ g-spot but squirting was still rare among them.
It wasn’t until a few years back when I decided to take my talents up a notch and visit a yoni massage class. It was conducted by a sex therapist here in Singapore and I was pleasantly surprised to see couples attend them together. I was there solo and was more than keen to soak up all the knowledge I could.
The good: The therapist was detailed with all the techniques that I needed to apply when it came to massaging the vulva, clitoris and vagina. She even provided notes for us.
The bad: It was a pretty short class that was high on theory, and low on practical application. We managed to massage some silicone models but practice was limited.
No matter, I had a “can do” attitude and sought to find my first few partners who were willing to sign up to be my yoni models.
I do run my own businesses but I thought to see if I could find time to do this as a side hustle and hobby. I signed up with a local swingers forum and lo and behold, I saw a post requesting for a yoni massage that very evening. A few messages later, I was on the way to her apartment, nervous but also excited for what’s to come.
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